Relationships in your past will serve you well in the future if you understand the “don’t wants” and the clarity they bring to your life. It will allow you to create healthy relationships, if you understand its significance.
What you learn from the “don’t want” is what you “do want”. Focus on what you “do want” and bring in a different person.
But remember, you must close the door on the old relationship (they were only presented to help you sort out what you really want). If you don’t close the door on the old, the new person will be held “hostage” to beliefs you created from the past.
Again, don’t get upset about the past and the different people, they were a part of the journey to help you to become get more clarity so you could truly enjoy the ride called life.